Description
What Others Say
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
“Top-notch resource. For perspective, I am a dual licensed clinical mental health and school counselor; I currently work clinically. This game is just so incredibly BALANCED. Some therapy games feel like we’re attacking the kids with prompts to talk about trauma/difficult topics, or are so rigid there’s no room for authenticity. This download is neither of those things. It’s superb. I’d have paid double for it.”
Whimsy in School Counseling
.
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
“My client loved this. It was a great rapport building activity. It was so nice to share so much positivity in the session.”
Two Fish Therapy
.
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
“I LOVE using this activity during individual therapy sessions both in-person and telehealth! It easily gets youth talking and engaged!”
Mindful and Kind Counseling
.
.
Self-Esteem Card Game – Fun SEL Activity for Kids & Teens
Boost confidence, celebrate strengths, and make self-esteem fun!
The Self-Esteem Card Game is an engaging SEL activity designed for kids and teens to explore their strengths, practice resilience, and build a positive self-concept. Whether used in counseling, classrooms, or at home, this game gets students talking, connecting, and feeling empowered.
.
Why Focus on Self-Esteem?
Strong self-esteem helps kids:
-
Develop an internal locus of control and sense of agency
-
Build resilience and coping skills
-
Strengthen relationships and social supports
-
Imagine and work toward their best possible future self
When students feel confident in who they are, they’re better prepared to learn, problem-solve, and navigate challenges.
.
Ways to Use This Game
✔ Small groups – Social emotional skill practice and peer connection
✔ Individual counseling – Insight into social skills, decision-making, frustration tolerance, and boundaries
✔ Classroom community-building – Cooperative group play to support relationships
✔ Family game night – Fun at home with a purpose
✔ Assessment tool – Counselors can observe how kids handle rules, respect, and problem-solving
.
What’s Included
-
Digital Version: Self-Esteem Connect Game (Google Slides™) – perfect for virtual groups or teletherapy
-
Printable Version: Card Game set in color + black-and-white (shape-matching) formats
-
Game directions & tips for therapeutic use
-
Pass tickets & action cards for extra fun twists
.
How to Play
Digital Connect Game (Google Slides™):
Players/teams pick a number, answer the matching self-esteem question, and place their pawn. First to complete a vertical, horizontal, or diagonal line wins!
Printable Card Game:
In this shedding-style game, players try to match the top card in the discard pile by number, color, shape, or action. When a card contains a self-esteem prompt, players share their answer—or use a pass ticket if they’d rather skip.
Fun action cards keep the game exciting:
-
Take 3 – Next player draws three cards
-
Rotate Right/Left – Players swap hands
-
Go Again – Take another turn
-
Free! – Change the color/shape + discard an extra card
-
Free + Spy! – Peek at another player’s cards before making your move
.
👉 With over 75 self-esteem questions and prompts, this game gives kids and teens the chance to express their unique voices, highlight strengths, and practice positive self-talk—all while having fun.
.










